V- DAY PLEASURES AND V-DAY TOYS
We're prioritizing pleasure this Valentine's Day! To offer you a helpful hand we teamed up with Sex and Body Positive Vlogger Samara Terese to learn more about introducing and enjoying toys in the bedroom and how to find your toy match made in heaven.
HOW TO FIND THE RIGHT TOY FOR YOU
The world of adult toys can be overwhelming when you’re just getting started and looking for a toy that will work for you. There are so many different shapes and sizes and sometimes it can be hard to even figure out how you’re supposed to use them.
We’re going to take some of that uncertainty away with this easy guide to finding the right toy for you!
( G-Kii and Mimi Soft pictured.)
PICKING YOUR PLEASURE
How you receive self pleasure is actually unique for everyone. There’s no right or wrong way to achieve an orgasm and because of this there’s many different ways of getting there!
- External Stimulation- You find the most pleasure from stimulating the clitoris.
- Internal Stimulation- You find the most pleasure from stimulating the G-Spot.
- Combination- One is great but when you have both you find it easier to release and get to that big “O”.
- Anal Stimulation- You enjoy the heightened pleasure from experiencing anal play.
- Erogenous Zones- Yes some people can achieve orgasms by stimulating the nipples, behind the knee, inner thigh, you name it by using their handy dandy toy, such as the Mimi Soft Vibrator.
SO HOW DO I PICK THE RIGHT TOY FOR ME?
Now that you know what your body enjoys the most, it will be easier to narrow down the perfect toy for you!
These are great if you love clitoral stimulation and need something small that you can easily tuck away into your night stand!
Although they may seem tiny in size, these little toys pack a mighty big vibration. With a simple one click button to change different speeds you can easily figure out if you like it on the lighter side or are more of a fast and furious side. If this sounds right up your alley try out the Classic Bullet Vibrator or the Mimi Soft Vibrator and let the fun begin!
Just like the name these toys are meant to stimulate that sensitive spot a few centimeters from the entrance of your vagina. AKA the G-spot! If you’re wondering why it has the unique curved design it’s because your G-spot is located on the top wall of your vagina. So although it’s possible to reach it with a completely vertical toy, it can be much more difficult. The curve makes it easier to find the right spot and the strong vibration will take you all the way to climax heaven! If this sounds like the toy for you, give the G-Kii G-Spot Vibrator a try.
Feeling Frisky? Try a butt plug! Yup, there are toys specifically made to explore the back door! The anus is full of tons of sensitive nerve endings that can lead to a whole new and intense orgasmic experience. If you’ve never tried anal play but have been wanting to branch out and explore your different sexual desires, trying out the Nuo Butt Plug could be a great way to start. Make sure to remember a few things when trying one for the first time.
- The anus is NOT self lubricating so USE LUBE.
- Make sure to start with a toy that’s thin and tapered (don’t grab the biggest one you see!)
- Feeling pressure is completely normal but you shouldn’t feel any type of pain.
- No need to rush make sure to insert your toy nice and slow.
DO I NEED TO PAIR MY TOY WITH LUBE?
YES! That’s your choice but we recommend it! Our toys are made of body safe silicone, and although they are very smooth to the touch, we recommend that you always pair them with a water based lubricant. Why is this? We want to make sure anything entering your vagina (or being used on your clitoris) has a nice smooth transition to prevent any friction.
NO MATTER WHAT YOU CHOOSE, TAKE IT SLOW
If your body has never experienced a sensation quite like this before, it may need some time to adjust. Start your toys off on the slowest speed and when you’re ready slowly work your way up, this way you won’t give your body more than it can handle. You may even find that there is one perfect speed for you that works every time.
Samara Terese is a body and sex positive woman who has a passion for encouraging women to love themselves from head to toe and embrace their sexuality without shame. Her fun and out of the box social channels will have you ready to take on the world and be your true self!
You can follow her on Instagram and Tik Tok at @samaraterese and check out her website at justconfidentlyme.com